Friday, October 14, 2011

IN REMBRANCE OF OUR FATHER





IN REMEMBRANCE OF OUR FATHER WHO LEFT THIS WORLD ON THE 19TH OF SEPTEMBER 2011




Monday, October 10, 2011

THE FINAL RITUALS-8th October 2011

RAVEE, THE ELDEST SON, INITIATES THE LAST RITUALS TO OUR FATHER.

THE FINAL RITUALS

THESE ARE THE FINAL RITUALS FOR THE SOUL OF OUR FATHER GANAPATHY. THE LOCATION IS AT SUNGAI ARA AT SOMU AND ESWARY'S RESIDENCE.


RAVEE THE ELDEST SON OF OUR FATHER TAKES THE COMMENCING RITUAL .

I sense your spirit, we sense your soul
Tonight's prayers is for your soul to move on.
Nathan performing the last rituals and prayers for our Fathers soul .
Rest now, my father rest in Peace.
Everything has been done for you now-so go in Peace
Your time here on earth is finished
Don't linger anymore-go travel in Peace.

This is the sick bed of our father during his last days on earth. His movements were very limited and he spent most of the time here in this room. Mum was always there to assist him and Eswary took care of the food and the medication. Ravee and Nathan visited whenever they could.

THE BELOVED SON

Friday, September 30, 2011

TRIBUTE TO OUR FATHER








THE DEAD - THEY SLEEP A LONG LONG SLEEP
THE DEAD- THEY REST AND THEIR REST IS DEEP




THE DEAD HAVE REST- BUT THE LIVING WEEP.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

IN REMBRANCE OF OUR FATHER.


In fond memory of our Father who brought us into this world.


Who put bread on our Tables.


Who clothed us with clothes.




And gave a roof over our heads.

You will always be remembered by all of us.May your Soul rest in Peace.












Friday, September 23, 2011

OUR FATHER'S FUNERAL





HE HAD A LONG ILLNESS AND NOW HE WAS FREE FROM ALL THE AFFLICTIONS THNAT PLAGUE MANKIND. FAMILY MEMBERS ABOUT TO PERFORM THE LAST RITES . ELDEST SON - RAVEE TAKES THE LEAD FOLLOWED BY YOUNGER BROTHER NATHAN,SOMU AND APPU.SRI BHARATHAN IS SOMEWHERE IN THE BACKGROUND.[I WAS EXCUSED] MOMENTS OF DEEP SADNESS.FINALLY HE HAS BREATHED HIS LAST AFTER FINISHING HIS TIME HERE ON EARTH. This is our Fathers body without his soul.
The day is 20th September 2011. Father passed away on the 19th September 2011 at 2.00 a.m.(As stated on his death certificate.) My sister SMS me that morning with this message "Appa has passed away". His body was brought to Batu Gantung Road for the final rites before being sent to Mt. Erskine. The Final Journey is about to begin .My eldest brother takes the lead, Nathan is on the left.A day of deep reflections and sorrow for the whole family. Poignant moments. Mother said that fathers troubles started when he was 60. His soul left the body at 81.


THE LAST RITES OF OUR FATHER, MR. GANAPATHY PATHER WHO PASSED AWAY ON THE 19TH SEPTEMBER 2011.


MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE.
























THE FAMILY

MOTHER WITH HER BELOVED NATHAN FROM SINGAPORE
MOTHER WITH HER ELDEST SON RAVEE & YOUNGEST SON NATHAN
NATHAN & MUM

RAVEE & FATHER
SOMU & SISTER ESWARY. A BIG THANK YOU TO SOMU FOR ALL HE HAD DONE.

MOTHERS MOST TROUBLESOME SON.
MUM WAS VERY SOROWFUL- CRYING AGAIN AND AGAIN.


RELATIVES PAYING THEIR LAST RESPECTS .





















THE CAR HAS ARRIVED.


THE BEGINNINGOF THE LAST DAY OF OUR FATHER HERE ON PLANET EARTH.TODAY HIS BODY WILL HAVE TO LEAVE ALL OF US.TODAY HIS BODY WILL MAKE ITS FINAL JOURNEY OF NO RETURN. BY SUNSET TODAY, HIS PHYSICAL BODY WILL BE TURNED TO DUST AND ASHES.THIS IS THE LAST MORNING FOR HIM



The family had made the best arrangements for him for his final departure.Our father did not drive a car all his days. And I dont think he has ever sat in a Mercedes Car before.This will be the first and the last time in a Mercedes for him.Farewell.

I have never seen my sister so sad in all her life. Eswary & Somu sacrificed a lot during the last days of our father. Made sure he had proper food and took him on numerous trips to the hospital. In that sense, our father was very blessed as he had family to care for him until the end.

In his early days, our father was a very hard working man. Leaves the house early after breakfast and only returns at night. I guess the burden was heavy on him to raise 4 children and to send them for education. I think he stopped working when sickness stepped in. Mum said his problems started when he was 60 years old.


He lived a long life and saw three of his grandchildren grow up to be adults.

The 2 beloved in the family- Appu and Sri Baratthan.( I hope the spelling is correct)

















INITIATION OF THE LAST RITES.